The Seventh House

Rahu is extremely focused, and in the 7th he has come into relationships. Rahu does "I": "What will I get? What will I get? What will I get?" And Rahu never follows rules and regulations.

Spouse and marriage

• An intense obsession about the partner, or with one specific person.
• He feels that a relationship means you have to eat a little poison. "If the partner is not poisonous, if he does not bite a little, then how is he a partner?" Rahu is the karaka of the snake, so in a partnership a little poison comes free, and it has to be taken.
• So he likes toxic people, slightly toxic partners. Normal people he likes less.
• He wants someone he can stay crazy and obsessive about, someone he roams after saying, "Please, please, please accept me. Accept my friend request. Accept me as your partner."
• Because Ketu sits on the lagna, these people sell themselves into the partner's hands, even their own body. In the past life also they created a problem regarding the body, and in this life too it will give problems. So keep caution here: you must not sell your body.
• "What did I get in the relationship? What did I get by living with you?" Rahu is the karaka of taking, and it is very stubborn. So he has to learn to give a little. Receiving from the world is very important, but even a beggar receives. When you come into a partnership, become a giver. Do not do too much "mine, mine".
• He always bargains: "All right, I will give you this. What will you do? Will you give anything at all?"

Business partner

• Fraud in partnership. Either you cheat, or you are cheated; either you give deception or you receive it. One of the two will surely happen whenever Rahu is in the 7th. Apply it and see.

How the world perceives you

• In a black or grey area: neither too good nor too bad.
• Allegations (aarop) will always be put on him, because Rahu never follows rules and regulations.
• People see him as a cheater.
• Whoever connects with him sticks to him like a magnet and will not want to leave him.

Private parts

• An obsession with the private parts: touching them regularly, as a habit.
• An obsession with underwear: "unique" underwear, with patterns, in silk. It looks a bit strange. What kind of night suit, what kind of undergarments: he will be crazy about all of it.
• Whenever Rahu is in the 7th house, read it as a Venus-Rahu combination. He is very obsessive about physical touch.
• Alcohol plus sex. You will see this combination regularly.
• Rahu is darkness, very loud music and smoke. So during intercourse you will find darkness, loud music and smoke. He likes dark, loud environments. What a dark, loud environment means, I will not explain; watch the film Fifty Shades of Grey and you will understand. There he will try everything he wants.

The father's income and desires

• Up-down, up-down, up-down. Sometimes a lot of money is coming, sometimes none at all. A regular struggle with money; the income never stabilises.
• The money you get at home, or from the father, will be a bit troublesome, because wherever Rahu is, things are not clear. The source of that money is a little unnis-bees (nineteen-twenty: not quite clean). And that shows in your marriage.

The mother's emotional body

• The mother's work is to bring big, big things into the home: utensils, a fridge she gets ordered, clothes. She buys a lot. That is Rahu's effect.
• She has many manorath (cherished wishes) and many unfulfilled desires.
• She is obsessive about you: "You are only mine."

Killer of your personality

• If the wife or the partner leaves, it gives a great deal of pain, because Rahu cannot let go of things.

Possibility of marriage

• An obsession for marriage: "When will my marriage happen?"
• A madness: "I have to marry only this one. I have already sold myself to this one. I simply cannot marry anyone else."

A very difficult placement. In the 7th house the Sun has no clothes. So he always feels: "My honour is being taken away." The Sun ultimately has to control his own heat here, so he has to destroy his own ego. That is why the Sun should be controlled.

Spouse and marriage

• Heavy ego clashes, and a desire to dominate the partner.
• Insult by the partner, again and again.
• He has a bad ego here, not a good one. With a good ego you do not see yourself through the other person's eyes. These people start getting offended: whenever the partner says or expresses something, they take offence.
• Slowly they separate, and start sleeping in different bedrooms. Husband and wife sleep separately: that is ego, the Sun.
• The distance can also be geographical: you live in Bihar and your partner lives in Dubai.
• Separation, if the Sun is very malefic.
• It is very difficult for him to trust the partner.
• Illegal relations, many times.
• Multiple marriages, many times. In all the kings of the Suryavansh, the solar dynasty, I have noticed multiple marriages in the Puranas. We come from lineages, and this is the quality of that lineage.
• The Sun has to learn to ask: "What will I give?"

Business partner

• Absolutely terrible for business partnerships: too much "I" and "my share". "If we put in this much money, my share is this much; if you put in that much, your share is that much." There is a great deal of conflict over ownership.
• Ego issues with the partner. He always tries to make others accept his own point.
• You have to stay suppressed (dab ke rehna), and it gives loss and conflict.
• The people in his office and his business partners will insult him. He stays busy trying to please others.
• And yet he will always want to work in partnership only.
• Even when the Sun transits the 7th house, it gives these issues.
• So never do business partnership if the Sun is in the 7th, and never do one with a person whose Sun is in the 7th.

How the world perceives you

• Henpecked: joru ka gulam (the wife's slave). The Sun eventually loses his ego in the 7th to keep the peace, so he compromises. Mummy says: "Ever since you got married, you have become your wife's slave."
• He has to bow his head (natmastak): "Beloved, I give away the pride of my weapons."
• Others also perceive him as egoistic.

Private parts

• Problems of sexual timing. The 7th is a cold place: the private parts are cooler than the rest of the body. The Sun raises that temperature, so problems come in the bedroom life. Not in every case, because Venus is also the karaka here, but the Sun does impact it.
• Heat-related problems: he feels very hot there, scars form, sometimes eruptions come out. Skin-related issues.
• A low, slow sperm count, even when the Sun sits with Shukra.
• In many cases, premature ejaculation (shighrapatan).

The father's income and desires

• The Sun is sattvik (pure) in nature here. There is no trouble.

The mother's emotional body

• The mother is commanding at home. Very heavy. She keeps everyone in the house in line.

Killer of your personality

• You will have to live bowed down.

Possibility of marriage

• Good. But the chances of divorce remain. That is why the Sun's placement in the 12th and in the 7th has not been called good.

When Ketu sits in the 7th house, the house opposite your personality, it brings confusion into relationships and a problem with touch. Wherever Ketu is, you should kill all your hopes and all your desires there. Then the person stays happy.

Spouse and marriage

• Deep confusion in relationships.
• The sooner they marry, the sooner they get bored. They are very eager to get married, they marry in great haste, and then they feel they have made a mistake. After the wedding he does not like the peda (the sweet); he does not like the shaadi ka laddu, the sweet of marriage. "I was a little hasty. I should not have done it so quickly. I deserve better."
• Dissatisfaction always remains in the marriage.
• To be happy he must expect nothing from the partner and live like a fakir, a detached monk in the relationship. A fakir is also called a beggar; seen in good terms, he is mukt (free), the one for whom the thing makes no difference at all. He must stay detached here; otherwise his humiliation is certain.
• He needs a supportive and spiritual partner, a travel-loving partner.
• It can also give physical abuse. If you are not interested in the sex life within the partnership, it gives physical abuse as well.

Business partner

• Separation in partnership.
• It can work only when you have no expectations from your partner. Keep no expectation at all, and things will be fine.

How the world perceives you

• Anxious, confused, directionless, not logical, and sanki (cranky, eccentric).
• People will say: "Do you know how much anxiety he has? What confusion! What kind of brain does he have? He is a first-class crank (sanki ek number ka)." "Why is he in such a fluster (hadbadahat)?"
• In short, people will not be able to judge you.

Private parts

• He is highly sensitive to physical touch: nobody should touch his body. Ketu is very sensitive.
• Wherever Ketu sits, it makes that part of the body small. It creates problems there, and over time it creates gaps there or makes it functionless.
• Physical blockages and numbness.
• The problem of hardness in the private parts: erectile dysfunction.
• Problems with the length of the private parts, especially in males.
• Later it gives sugar: insulin resistance and blood-sugar trouble. So please be careful.
• That is why regular exercise should be done here.

The father's income and desires

• The income comes in stops and starts: it comes, stops, comes again. "Papa's salary came and went straight into the EMI." It comes with delays and goes into debts and EMIs.
• The father's desires stay unfulfilled.

The mother's emotional body

• The mother is a giver. Charity (daan-punya) keeps happening through her.
• She always has a problem with dirt, and she is always ready to throw things out of the house: whatever is of no use, out it goes. Never let garbage collect at home.
• She is minimalistic, keeping the fewest possible things at home. This is Ketu working in the 4th from the 4th.

Killer of your personality

• Isolation. When you forget yourself, there will be a lot of trouble.
• To lose your individuality and go along with someone, you need a supportive and spiritual partner with whom you can travel regularly. Ketu in the 7th gives a lot of travel: Rishikesh, the mountains.

Possibility of marriage

• Good. It is not that marriage will not happen with Ketu in the 7th.
• If it is not happening, it is just not happening; then suddenly (phatak se, jhatke se) it happens.
• Ketu never accepts the qualities of Venus. So, just as with Ketu in the 9th, this person will not believe in marriage; he will believe in sadhana (spiritual practice).

Shani is gender neutral, very hard-working, and very good for money. But Shani creates pressure, and his work is to create fear in you. Being a malefic, he puts that problem into the relationship.

Spouse and marriage

• The partner is extremely hard-working, but can be slow and lazy. You will see these characteristics.
• He treats marriage and physical intimacy like a nine-to-five job, a stressful duty, not an enjoyment. What people generally do in the 7th house for enjoyment, he does like a job, under pressure: "What am I doing? I am doing a job. I have to make my partner happy." This is the biggest problem. If this is understood, things get better.
• Anxiety in the bedroom, and an inferiority complex: "Am I good in bed? I am not good in my sexual life." Shani gives him this fear again and again.
• So physical intimacy feels very stressful. He says: "With my partner I am not comfortable. I go somewhere outside and do it."
• The wife will always create a lot of pressure on him. Understand it like this: you have married Yamaraj.
• Shani, wherever he sits, does not want to change. And Shani in the 7th suspects a great deal: if the partner so much as looks at someone else, the suspicion starts. Add Ketu to it and he becomes completely sanki.
• Wherever Shani sits, either you abuse or you get abused. In the 7th the trouble with the partner comes from abusive language (gaali-galauj). Do not consider your wife your servant. Your wife is your wife.

Business partner

• The partner treats you like an employee. He gives you orders (hukum chala raha hai) and wants all the work, all the heavy lifting, done by you alone.
• And he makes it look as if you do nothing at all. It dulls your image.
• The wife treats him the same way, like Shani: she gives him two meals a day, and that is all, and she is happy.

How the world perceives you

• Very ideal and very hard-working. People feel you are extremely hard-working.

Private parts

• In males, first it creates sensitivity. Second, it creates erectile dysfunction.
• Performance anxiety, from the mental pressure.
• So look after your fitness: go to the gym regularly. If you do not, you will have trouble in the private parts.

The father's income and desires

• A stable income, but it stabilises late in life.
• Whatever of papa's wishes get fulfilled, get fulfilled in old age, or after a delay.
• With the father, I have seen an addiction to alcohol many times: to wine, to that drink which tastes very bitter.

Killer of your personality

• Throw inferiority out of the door, and take decisions. Shani delays a great deal, so take your decisions boldly.
• Losing your individuality and going along with someone is no problem here. It is good.

Possibility of marriage

• A delay in marriage. How much delay depends on the dasha, but Shani certainly gives delay.

The Moon in the 7th is entirely like a film. It is the most interesting of all. It gives mood swings and raag-dvesh (attachment and aversion): a lot of fighting and a lot of love. And what you like, you do not get.

Spouse and marriage

• A very beautiful, attractive partner. A very beautiful wife.
• Massive mood swings, regular fights and intense love: sometimes very attractive, sometimes the very opposite. Off and on, off and on. I have seen this exact problem in an officer's chart.
• The heart keeps changing. First it fell for someone, then for someone else, then for someone else again. So the partners keep changing, and that is why one should settle on someone (tik jana). Chandra himself had many wives, the twenty-seven nakshatras, so the Moon in the house of relationship can give many partners.
• The changing heart leads to dissatisfaction: "I didn't get what I actually wanted."
• The partner holds the remote control of the person's emotions. The wife is always controlling his emotional body.
• They love eating from the spouse's own hands, or feeding the spouse: "Someone should feed me." I have noticed this pattern.
• The spouse falls ill quickly and keeps getting ill. It makes the spouse lazy and moody.
• Klesh (strife) for three days every month.
• Trauma in marriage in the long term. And it is here that one also receives a curse (shraap), so one should live carefully in the 7th house.

Business partner

• A Moon business partner can never be trusted. The Moon is a little sanki (whimsical): if it likes something, it likes it.
• Deception comes here: going back on one's word (mukar jana), not honouring agreements (samjhauta) and rules.
• Working manmauji, as the mood takes you.
• Here you have to use emotional intelligence.

How the world perceives you

• An emotional fool, 110 percent. Moody, always crying.
• And very beautiful. You are attractive, because that is what sits in the 7th house, and people will certainly like you.

Private parts

• Premature ejaculation. I have seen this problem here.
• Childhood trauma: inappropriate touch early in life. If there are malefics here, I have seen cases of child abuse, where some relative gives a bad touch in childhood. You will have to look for this. That is why you should be very careful whenever the Moon goes into the 7th house.
• Narcissistic traits. All of you, add this: the Moon in the 7th house gives narcissistic traits. It comes whenever the Moon and Venus meet: the 7th is naturally Venus's house, and when the Moon sits in it, the person always wants to be treated like a maharaja or a maharani. So be very careful how much air you give that trait.

The father's income and desires

• The father will have left his education midway.
• Seasonal work, like a barsati nala (a monsoon stream): money came once, and then no money is coming.

The mother's emotional body

• Everybody knows the mother, whatever happens. She is very famous and well known in her circle.

Killer of your personality

• He hands his remote to the partner. If the Moon joins a malefic here, the remote literally stays in the partner's hand, and the partner can make him dance to his tune (naach nachana). He can do the same to the partner.
• This is very risky. Many times I have seen people taking poison here. If it becomes very malefic, the situation of taking poison arises; if it comes very strongly, it gives a suicidal tendency. So one should live very carefully.
• In losing his individuality, it is madness. He will jump into fire for that person.

Possibility of marriage

• Marriage certainly happens. But the one you love, you do not marry.
• The father-in-law will be a bit of a Hitler. He gets very angry.

Whenever Guru is in the 7th bhava, decisions are taken on God's trust (Bhagwan bharose). The marriage too happens on God's trust. Most of this person's decisions will be on God's trust.

Spouse and marriage

• Marriage decisions are left entirely up to God.
• Make the spouse your guru, and go according to her. The spouse acts as a guru, a guide, and always does the work of margdarshan (guidance). You have married a guru.
• The spouse gives a lot of gyan (lectures of knowledge) and shows off that knowledge.
• The partner is usually stable and highly moral, and generally healthy, with good fat in the body: a little plump, a heavier or healthier build.
• Jupiter in the 7th aspects the lagna. So the person looks beautiful and sattvik: a learned face, with that scholarly, educational nature on it.
• Not wildly sexual, and not interested in going dirty. Either you will not be interested, or the other person will not be. Many times I have seen the sexual side even come to an end, and then the person runs here and there.
• Jupiter in the 7th requires agnihotra, the sacred fire offering. Until the yajna (fire sacrifice) is done, you cannot sleep with that partner or be sexually involved; until then the union is not considered legal.
• After marriage you get the support of fortune (bhagya).
• Brihaspati was attracted towards his brother's wife and destroyed the child in her womb. So Brihaspati in the 7th can show a relationship, or a debt, within the family's own relations.

Business partner

• A very good business partner, and he can work in partnership. The partnership runs on trust, and you get good partners.

How the world perceives you

• A sadhu (saint). If anybody at all has Jupiter in the 7th, then even if he commits a scandal (kaand), people still take him for "a sadhu, nothing else". Whatever he does, the relatives still take him for a sadhu.
• People see him like their own relative: "He is our home's own child." Someone sees a sister in him, someone a brother, someone something or other. It always feels: "This is a relative from my own house."
• A people-pleaser, but people trust him.

Private parts

• No problem. Only a little delay: a delay in childbirth.

The father's income and desires

• Very sattvik. This is a good placement for the father.

The mother's emotional body

• The mother is very religious, and does a great deal of puja at home.

Killer of your personality

• The giving nature. Guru's job is to give. So whenever anybody needs anything, he asks the wife for it and gives it away. Many times I have seen them give away, even sell, the spouse's belongings.
• So the fights come from the giving: "Why did you give him that? That was mine." "You give away far too much money, or anything at all, to anybody." The spouse bought something and brought it home, and you gave it away to the whole world at once. Control that.

Possibility of marriage

• Very good.
• If it is not happening, keep the Brihaspativar (Thursday) fast and worship Lord Hari regularly. Then you will see things move.

With Budha in the 7th comes khel khel mein shaadi: a marriage that happens as if in play. It is a children's kind of marriage.

Spouse and marriage

• Playful marriages. First a physical relationship, then the marriage.
• Early physical relationships: losing virginity in school, early sexual experience.
• Multiple relationships and multiple romantic partners. Three people come into the life.
• Humour, and a sibling feeling. Look at the husband and wife: the way these two behave, they behave like brother and sister. The spouse feels more like a sibling or a best friend.
• The relationship he likes has that school-life feeling in it: humour, roaming about, a young partner he can go on holiday with.
• He needs a partner he can travel with, dance with, learn music with, practise all his hobbies with. Hobbies play a very big role.
• He likes the partner whose touch he likes.
• The husband or wife will be young, good-looking, very fast, humorous and well-dressed.
• When the husband leaves the wife and lives with someone else, with two families, that is Budha.
• Extramarital affairs can be there with Budha in the 7th, and yet the relationship still goes on. The wife knows, the husband knows, that the other is involved with someone, or likes someone, and they laugh it off as a joke (mazaak-mazaak mein). There is a fragment of Budha and Mangala in this. That is how things differ from chart to chart; we will understand these dynamics slowly as we grow in prediction.
• With Budha in Simha, or with the Sun, the Sun controls him.

Business partner

• Consultancy and multiple businesses.
• Import-export work, third-party services, and sales.

How the world perceives you

• A trader, a businessman: intelligent and jugaadu (one who always finds a workaround), a clever, resourceful fixer.

Private parts

• No problem, and he looks young. Only Shani should not come here. Shani should not sit with Budha in the 7th, and Shani's drishti (aspect) should not fall on him; otherwise it brings napunsakta (impotence), even severe impotence.
• When Shani afflicts Budha here, it also creates gender and hormone confusion. It makes the combination of gay and lesbian.
• If Budha becomes very powerful here, a transgender kind of feeling also comes sometimes.

The father's income and desires

• Three sources of income, because Budha is in the form of three. Multiple sources of income.
• The father's desires are about roaming and travelling about.

The mother's emotional body

• The mother is humorous, playful by nature, good-natured and helpful.
• All her purchases come in threes. Whatever your mummy brings, she brings three: three sofas, a set of utensils, three glasses, three shampoos. Everything in a format of three.

Killer of your personality

• Don't take advantage.
• Nothing with children: no child pornography and no abuse of children (bachchabazi), nothing at all. If you touch children here, Rahu will beat you and beat you and ruin your condition. Behave absolutely well with teens.
• Mercury's way is logic. He pinpoints everything, and if the person in front of him can answer well, he is happy. He wants someone to play and frolic with, someone to talk to.

Possibility of marriage

• The marriage does happen. But deception also comes here: you get deceived, my friend. So please be careful.

Shukra is very eager to go into a relationship. But going into his own house, Shukra closes his eyes. Shukra is blind here, and so he marries the wrong person.

Spouse and marriage

• Very aatur (impatient, eager) to get into a relationship.
• Marriage with the wrong person, chosen purely on physical attraction.
• That is why, if Shukra is in the 7th house, one should marry by the family's choice, after listening to the mother and father. An arranged marriage gives a very beautiful, sweet-smelling partner. If Shukra is on the lagna instead, the person should marry by himself, with his eyes open.
• If malefics come here, they damage the marriage, and there is a lot of trouble.
• The husband or wife has very good-looking, very beautiful eyes, and a very beautiful face.
• He smells very good.
• Sexual desires are extremely high.

Business partner

• The business partner is wealthy. And here, actually, there is deception.
• So keep your eyes open. What did Shukracharya do? He took all the wealth from Kubera. There is magic in Shukra's eyes, and in a partnership he coaxes and lures (bahla-phusla lena). Be very alert.

How the world perceives you

• Wealthy and resourceful.
• And kaami (lustful), from kaam (desire).
• A beautiful person, with a lot of Venus qualities.

Private parts

• No issues, unless Shukra is afflicted here; then there will be trouble.
• With desire this high, he must keep strict hygiene and avoid over-indulgence. Over-indulgence: stop it.

The father's income and desires

• The father's income is excellent, and his desires are fulfilled.
• But sometimes it gives the father an extramarital affair, because for the father there is Rahu's effect here. You will see it whenever the dasha runs. I have tested this a lot. I first worked it out in a chart from my own family, a cousin's, and after that I came to know a lot of things.

The mother's emotional body

• Very nice. She cooks very good food at home, exceptionally well.
• The mother is beautiful, and looks beautiful too. The 7th is the 4th from the 4th.

Killer of your personality

• Take care of hygiene. It must not become bad here.
• Look after your smell and your eating habits.
• Losing individuality is fine here. There is no trouble in this.

Possibility of marriage

• Very good. There is no trouble here. The only trouble, as I told you, is the chance of an extramarital affair for the father, so be very careful there.

Mars in the 7th house is very heavy. Mangala never compromises here: "You will have to go according to me." He makes it a pact.

I left Mars out of the class notes on purpose, because those notes were made by one of my students from the live session where I taught it. But my audience has grown mature. The people with the old principles have stopped watching my channel, and that is good for me, and good for them also.

Private parts

• Whenever Mars is in the 7th house, it makes the combination for oral sex. I have predicted this a lot. If you want to know more about it, I will tell you.
• If Shani aspects Mars, the oral sex will be on the male side.
• If Brihaspati aspects it, or the benefics aspect it, the oral sex will be on the female side.

Killer of your personality

• He will not compromise and will not step down from his ego, so Mars is not good in the 7th. Like the Sun, he wants only himself in everything.
• Plain and simple, Mangala has only one thing: "Stay with me, go by my reckoning." My way or the highway.

You will see the whole flavour of Mars when you do the predictions. There is a whole playlist on my channel with complete marriage predictions. How Mars plays with Shukra and Shani beside him in the 7th, I show in "Mangala, Shukra and Shani together" below.